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Fran
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On Jul 8, 6:47 pm, John - Melb <mcnamara_j...@hotmail.com> wrote:
is no advantage to Trevor, (or anyone) posting material to people who
ignore it.
2. If he "now knows" it, and you don't like this this is surely your
fault. After all, if you had done what the subscribers to
aus.electronics had done -- i.e. ignore his stuff, he wouldn't know
it.
3. It's not clear that Trevor was even aware that his stuff was being
x-posted to aus.electronics as *he didn't add this to the follow ups*
4. As tempting as it can be to see this place as some cyber version of
"mortal kombat" in which you (why you?) are moved to confront your
enemy wherever he appears, you should resist this. I am a person of
strong views, and yet I make no attempt to ensure that everyone who
says things I don't agree with on usenet is answered. That's too big a
task and in any event, it would imply a monstrous and unhealthy ego.
If in your opinion, someone is talking nonsense, you have to assume
that at least some others will notice because you John-Melb are not
uniquely insightful. Others will no doubt have followed the path you
have to what you see as truth and wisdom, even if they don't shout it
from the rooftops, and those who may wish to develop nonsense will be
challeneged when they offer it in places where people are interested
in the topic.
were hoping that they'd see no more of the off-topic stuff. Telling
someone to take it someplace else rarely works, often triggers more
off-tiopic posts and is pointless if you believe the post was not
intentional. Once someone answers the off-topic post, the way is open
to a lot more, so it's not surprising that once that Rubicon has been
crossed, people get irritated in particular with the people seen as
opening the floodgates ( to mix a metaphor).
Look. There's no doubt that the whole issue is a highly emotive one.
That old saying "when someone mentions culture I reach for my gun"
applies, but I think you are mistaken in attributing the responses
here to animus towards your position on gun rights. As far as I can
tell, regardless of their views on the issue, people here want
discussion confined to electronics and closely related matters. You
are not only breaching that aspiration but, along with with "Thomas"
threatening to punish the group by spamming them for giving what you
mistakenly see tacit endorsement of Trevor's views. Can't you see that
from their POV this sounds like bullying? Like collective punishment?
Are you really surprised that you are getting negative responses?
endorsement. Most of what is posted in aus.politics offends me at some
level but I respond to only a fraction of it. I'm certainly not
welcoming the views or rightwing bigots by not answering them.
wellbeing, you must unlearn it. This can lead nowhere good for you. No
amount of payback or "ROFLs" will salve your pain -- so much is clear
from your admission above -- you are, by your own admission, not
acting freely but in knee jerk mode. You are driven by psychic pain --
angst if you prefer.
You need to stop making so much in here about you -- your rights to
respond; to get even; to correct the ledger. It's not about you and
how people think of you or the things you deem important. It's about
issues people want and don't want to discuss and their right not to be
bothered by the intrusion of noise into their chosen part of
cyberspace and certainly their right not to be harassed by someone
who, to them, surely appears to be using aus.electronics to deal with
their own feelings of hurt and marginalisation.
My friendly advice would be to reassess what is important to you in
this place and to put some distance between what you write about and
you, the human being. Usenet is a place for batting about ideas. You
don't have to win all the time and there being few real ways of
determining who won anyway, the question should be moot.
Best
Fran
1. What Trevor "now knows" is immaterial. As far as I can tell, thereOn Jul 8, 5:30 pm, Fran <Fran.B...@gmail.com> wrote:
On Jul 8, 1:10 pm, Thomas <recalcitrant_redn...@hotmail.com> wrote:
snip
Where other posters on aus.electronics are at fault, is that they're
quite happy to have Wilson post his off topic, anti-gun rants here,
but object strongly when an alternative opinion is posted. That one
sided view of what consitutes reasonable or on topic posts on
aus.electronics leads those who have observed or been involved in the
gun debate for some time to see this as unfair.
snip
Ok there are a couple of problems right here.
1. Your assumption that the subscribers of aus.electronics are "quite
happy to have Wilson post his off topic, anti-gun rants here".
If they were encouraging him, you might have a point, but as far as I
can tell, they haven't. They are ignoring him on this topic just as
one ignores spam about sex services and cheap deals on herbal
medications or sunglasses or other off-topic stuff that appears in
groups that we read.
Fran, I hope you don't mind if I respond.
The encouragement comes from attacking the counter point, Trevor now
knows that he can post whatever anti-gun rants he likes on
aus.electronics, and others posting there will neither challenge or
question him, however anybody posting an alternative viewpoint will be
hounded by all those "not interested" ones.
is no advantage to Trevor, (or anyone) posting material to people who
ignore it.
2. If he "now knows" it, and you don't like this this is surely your
fault. After all, if you had done what the subscribers to
aus.electronics had done -- i.e. ignore his stuff, he wouldn't know
it.
3. It's not clear that Trevor was even aware that his stuff was being
x-posted to aus.electronics as *he didn't add this to the follow ups*
4. As tempting as it can be to see this place as some cyber version of
"mortal kombat" in which you (why you?) are moved to confront your
enemy wherever he appears, you should resist this. I am a person of
strong views, and yet I make no attempt to ensure that everyone who
says things I don't agree with on usenet is answered. That's too big a
task and in any event, it would imply a monstrous and unhealthy ego.
If in your opinion, someone is talking nonsense, you have to assume
that at least some others will notice because you John-Melb are not
uniquely insightful. Others will no doubt have followed the path you
have to what you see as truth and wisdom, even if they don't shout it
from the rooftops, and those who may wish to develop nonsense will be
challeneged when they offer it in places where people are interested
in the topic.
Sequence and continuity. The people ignoring the post as off-topicIt's not surprising that they object to someone posting an
"alternative opinion" because they weren't interested in the original
opinion and now the person posting off-topic has someone with which to
continue posting off-topic. Your inference that this goes to content
is unjustified.
Really? other than content, what difference in the differing posts?
were hoping that they'd see no more of the off-topic stuff. Telling
someone to take it someplace else rarely works, often triggers more
off-tiopic posts and is pointless if you believe the post was not
intentional. Once someone answers the off-topic post, the way is open
to a lot more, so it's not surprising that once that Rubicon has been
crossed, people get irritated in particular with the people seen as
opening the floodgates ( to mix a metaphor).
2. If you really believed that Trevor was being encouraged to post his
"off topic, anti-gun rants here" and that the responses to you were
driven by political sympathy for the gun control position, you might
well wonder why
Looking at the apparent depth of feeling expressed, I think that
decision was made long before any of this started.
Look. There's no doubt that the whole issue is a highly emotive one.
That old saying "when someone mentions culture I reach for my gun"
applies, but I think you are mistaken in attributing the responses
here to animus towards your position on gun rights. As far as I can
tell, regardless of their views on the issue, people here want
discussion confined to electronics and closely related matters. You
are not only breaching that aspiration but, along with with "Thomas"
threatening to punish the group by spamming them for giving what you
mistakenly see tacit endorsement of Trevor's views. Can't you see that
from their POV this sounds like bullying? Like collective punishment?
Are you really surprised that you are getting negative responses?
There's simply no evidence that ignoring Trevor's posts impliesa) these people would be interested in the other side of the debate.
If they really are hostile, what's the point of posting? Surely they
will already be aware of the pro-gun claims and have rejected them on
one ground or another.
b) Why wouldn't they appear in gun discussion groups and take it up
there?
Your justification seems to be that people in aus.electronics are
guilty of being insufficiently rude to Trevor and accordingly, you
mean to punish them for "giving aid and comfort" to him by posting
your screeds to aus.electronics. In short, it's not about debate. It's
about getting even with Trevor and anyone who tolerates him because
you don't like him or his ideas.
No Fran, it's about debate, Trevor's opinions, despite being off
topic are welcome there, any differing opinion, is not.
endorsement. Most of what is posted in aus.politics offends me at some
level but I respond to only a fraction of it. I'm certainly not
welcoming the views or rightwing bigots by not answering them.
Then with the greatest of respect and genuine regard for yourThis reflects rather poorly on you.
Perhaps it does, but considering the vilifiation I've received over
the last decade or so, it is a learned response.
wellbeing, you must unlearn it. This can lead nowhere good for you. No
amount of payback or "ROFLs" will salve your pain -- so much is clear
from your admission above -- you are, by your own admission, not
acting freely but in knee jerk mode. You are driven by psychic pain --
angst if you prefer.
You need to stop making so much in here about you -- your rights to
respond; to get even; to correct the ledger. It's not about you and
how people think of you or the things you deem important. It's about
issues people want and don't want to discuss and their right not to be
bothered by the intrusion of noise into their chosen part of
cyberspace and certainly their right not to be harassed by someone
who, to them, surely appears to be using aus.electronics to deal with
their own feelings of hurt and marginalisation.
My friendly advice would be to reassess what is important to you in
this place and to put some distance between what you write about and
you, the human being. Usenet is a place for batting about ideas. You
don't have to win all the time and there being few real ways of
determining who won anyway, the question should be moot.
Best
Fran