K
Kryten
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I often say stereotypes spring from prototypes.
Some people have aspberger's syndrome, which is a biological cause of geeks.
Smart kids who are spellbound by the way things work are in a minority,
don't tend to have much in common with the majority for whom social status
is based on who you can be snotty to, or smoking, or drugs, etc. Smart kids
are usually smart enough to disdain such criteria. As such they attract
contempt or aggression from the majority.
So unless they have decent school mates then yes they can become ostracised
and have less opportunity to learn social skills.
I expect there are some evolutionary reasons for people picking on unusual
people, perhaps to weed out potentially disadvantaged freaks. This might
explain (though not justify) racist aggression. If kids are raised in an
environment where minority skin colour is seen just as normal as minority
eye colour, hostility is reduced to those who are just natural bullies.
What goes around comes around as they say in the USA.
A mate of mine once installed a security system at a prison, and made eye
contact with one of the jerks from his school days. Neither said anything -
they didn't have to! He said it was one of the sweetest moments in his life!
One jerk I knew at school committed suicide. After a life spent making other
people really unhappy, I guess life repaid him in kind.
<larwe@larwe.com> wrote in message
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successful people's failures. They forget that they might be even fatter or
have a worse marriage.
Some people have aspberger's syndrome, which is a biological cause of geeks.
Smart kids who are spellbound by the way things work are in a minority,
don't tend to have much in common with the majority for whom social status
is based on who you can be snotty to, or smoking, or drugs, etc. Smart kids
are usually smart enough to disdain such criteria. As such they attract
contempt or aggression from the majority.
So unless they have decent school mates then yes they can become ostracised
and have less opportunity to learn social skills.
I expect there are some evolutionary reasons for people picking on unusual
people, perhaps to weed out potentially disadvantaged freaks. This might
explain (though not justify) racist aggression. If kids are raised in an
environment where minority skin colour is seen just as normal as minority
eye colour, hostility is reduced to those who are just natural bullies.
What goes around comes around as they say in the USA.
A mate of mine once installed a security system at a prison, and made eye
contact with one of the jerks from his school days. Neither said anything -
they didn't have to! He said it was one of the sweetest moments in his life!
One jerk I knew at school committed suicide. After a life spent making other
people really unhappy, I guess life repaid him in kind.
<larwe@larwe.com> wrote in message
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Oh yes, it is resentment. People console their own failures by reading aboutFor exactly the same reason, people like to read about millionaire
superstars getting fat or having marital problems.
successful people's failures. They forget that they might be even fatter or
have a worse marriage.